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December 17, 2018

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Travel Nursing and Personal Relationships

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How travel nursing affects personal relationships.

Travel nursing offers some amazing benefits and opportunities to those who decide that this is the right career path and lifestyle for them. The chance to see a variety of new places and sights and to experience a variety of local cultures is a wonderful motivator for medical professionals. Plus, there are opportunities to learn from new people with a variety of different experiences as they travel.

There are, however, some downfalls to travel nursing. One of the biggest of these is how travel nursing affects personal relationships. It takes a lot of work to develop and maintain relationships when you are on the road. Sometimes, travel nurses find that they drift away from friends and loved ones at home. Others feel that they quickly lose touch with newfound friends or romantic interests that come into their lives.  Although this can’t always be avoided, it’s possible to minimize how travel nursing affects personal relationships. Here are a few techniques that can help you to manage your personal relationships as you pursue your career as a travel nurse.

Maintaining Relationships at Home

Spouses, children, and other friends and family are high priority relationships that will require your effort when you are traveling as a nurse. When an assignment keeps you on the road for a long period of time, it can be hard to keep your loved ones feeling as if they are a priority in your life. By creating communication plans and sticking with them, knowing at all times when you are planning to come home, and making yourself as available as possible when they need your help or just want to hear your voice can go a long way to maintaining your relationships at home.

Make sure that you and your significant other are on the same page about your career if you hold your relationship at a higher priority than your job. Look for creative solutions, such as your partner traveling with you and working remotely. Finding ways that you can be together can be a miraculous epiphany for the relationship. Working together also prevents hard feelings and separation.

It’s not impossible to keep your relationships strong during and between travel assignments.

Developing New Relationships While on the Road

As you move from city to city and assignment to assignment, you will come in contact with many amazing people. Some you will instantly connect with and others with whom you naturally fall into a friendship. While it is important to maintain your friendships and relationships at home, these newfound friendships can often fill a void and enhance your life. Put a concerted effort into spending time with new acquaintances. Make an effort to keep in contact as you travel to your next assignment or return home.

A budding romantic relationship that starts when on an assignment could be difficult to maintain, but with some effort on your part, it is a definite possibility. While you are on location, make time for dating and growing the relationship with a potential partner. Communicate openly about your next career move and discuss what that means for your relationship. Develop a plan for how you will take things to the next level. Decide together what the next steps should be. When you are in agreement about the future of the relationship, you can work together and give your romance the chance it deserves.

How has travel nursing affected your relationships? What are some of your best tips for relationship maintenance as you travel?


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By The Gypsy Nurse

June 15, 2017

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Nurse Travel with A Spouse or “Tag-A-Long”

I know that many travel nurses travel with a spouse or significant other and began wondering what it was like for those that tag along. There isn’t really any support system for this unique group of people, and I wanted to provide insight into what it is like and the daily challenges for this group of people.

What is a tag-a-long?  I originally found the term when I was researching travel nursing blogs.  I found a blog of a self-proclaimed ‘tag-a-long and loved the term.  (I’ve searched back through my internet history and can’t find the link, so if this is you, please contact me, and I’ll give the appropriate link!  UPDATE:  I have found the source!  Stay tuned next week for the interview with the Original TagALong!)  Many travel nurses travel with a significant other, a spouse, a close friend, or another family member.  These are tag-a-longs. I wanted to find out what it’s like to live the Travel Nurse life as a Tag-A-Long, and here is what I found out.

Thanks go to Sam, a self-proclaimed ‘best-friend tag-a-long who agreed to answer a few questions.  Sam has been tagging along since July 31st, 2010, Almost 2.5 years.

Here is what Sam had to say about living the Travel Nursing Life as a tag-a-long:

Why did you choose to live a life of Travel Nursing?


My wife Kristen (A Travel Physical Therapist) and I wanted to explore the country before we had obligations such as a mortgage or children.  We both didn’t travel many places growing up and have been inspired by other friends to get out and see the world.  As we see more things and live in more places, I feel like we are able to get a better perspective on the world.

Do you work? From Home/Internet?


I own a small Mobile and Web Application development company, Handstand Technologies (http://handstandtech.com), where I do consulting and build products.  I work primarily at home but occasionally at a client’s office, depending on my current works.  I’ve found some of my work through my existing connections, some through recruiters, and other work through new contacts I’ve met while traveling.  In my spare time over the last year, I’ve been developing a web and mobile application to help licensed healthcare professionals keep track of their licenses, CEUs, and work history. My wife’s work inspired this idea as a traveler.  There are too many things to keep track of, and no easy way to do it.  I’m developing this suite of tools to help travelers and other health care professionals.  I’m looking to release this at the end of January.  If anyone is interested in this or has anything else they’d like to see done, I’d be happy to hear from them by email (sam AT handstandtech.com).

What do you do when your Travel companion is working?


I work at home or at a client’s office.  I try to work the same hours as my wife when I can.

Do you get bored?


Bored of traveling?  No.  But I do have a desire to set more roots and have something to call our own.  We travel around with only what fits in our two cars, so it’s necessary to be minimalist. It’s really great, but it’s started to wear on you as time goes on.  We feel like we have another 2 years of traveling in us, but we might end up settling down after that.

What do you do to keep active/entertained?


We go running and check out local places.  We try to do new things as much as we can since we live in areas we have never been to before.  We are currently in the San Diego area, and I’ve bought a wet suit and surfboard. I don’t know when I’ll ever live somewhere where I can go surfing whenever I want, so you need to embrace what the area has to offer and try to enjoy it.

Do you utilize local clubs or groups like meetup.com

I generally try to find other people in the mobile/web/software industry using meetup.com and have been successful at finding a few people everywhere we go.

What is the biggest challenge for you?


The logistics in moving a lot.  You need to be ready to move with just a few days notice.  I’m generally in charge of finding housing, setting up utilities, etc.  The most notice we’ve ever had about an assignment was about 2.5 weeks, and the shortest was 4 days.  You must be able to “go with the flow” and figure out what the next best step is.  Finding housing can be a really big challenge if you decide to do it on your own.  We’ve opted to find our own housing for every assignment because we can generally find something cheaper than the stipend or find something that really works well.  When getting housing through your company, you will get something decent, but you run the risk of not finding a place you really like.

What is the best benefit for you?


Freedom and exploration.  We are getting to do things that most people will never do.  We have lived in 6 states so far and want to do a few more.  South Carolina, North Carolina, Virginia, Massachusetts, Texas & California

What advice would you give to someone considering the life of a Tag-a-long?


Do it.  If you can find a way to make enough money to get by and not go crazy, it’s an amazing opportunity to explore the country with a friend/partner/etc.  I would recommend this for anyone who is able to do short-term contract work.  The priceless part about it is the extended breaks between contracts.  Working a full-time job year-round is exhausting and having a break between contracts help you recharge for your next assignment.

What term do you refer to yourself as?  Tag-A-Long, Side-kick, etc?


“Best Friend”.  It’s important to travel with someone who you can get through things with.  More than likely, you will not know anyone else when you get to your new assignment so you will interact even more with your traveling companion.  Be sure to travel with someone you can live with, get along with, and still enjoy each other’s company.

Is there something unique that you do, collect or save from your travels?


Kristen and I take a picture of everywhere we go and have all of this saved on a map.  I do handstands, and she does Jump-kicks.

I asked Sam for a photo or two to add to the article and he blew me away with his and Kristen’s Jump/Handstand photos.  I couldn’t choose just one, so I’ve posted the link for you to check them out.  What a fun way to capture the moment!

You can check out the photos on a map at http://handstandsam.onamap.net and http://jumpkicker.onamap.net.

Are you a healthcare provider or nurse that travel with a spouse?  I would love to hear your ‘tag-a-long story; if you are interested in contributing by sharing your story contact me.

By The Gypsy Nurse

January 11, 2013

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Nurse Travel with A Spouse: The Original Self-Proclaimed Tag Along

I know that many travel nurses travel with a spouse or significant other and began wondering what it was like for those that tag along. There isn’t really any support system for this unique group of people, and I wanted to provide insight into what it is like and the daily challenges for this group of people.

What is a tag-a-long?  I originally found the term when I was researching travel nursing blogs.  I found a blog of a self-proclaimed tag-a-long and loved the term. 

Since the last Tag-A-Long Travel Nurse interview, I figured out where I had found the term.  Ryan S. blogs at TagALongNurse and has agreed to provide another Tag-A-Long interview.  I’m happy to have found the source of the term.  I felt a bit like I plagiarized, not being able to reference where I found the term.

Many travel nurses travel with a significant other, a spouse, a close friend, or other family members.  These are tag-a-longs. I wanted to find out what it’s like to live the Travel Nurse life as a Tag-A-Long, and here is what I found out.

Thanks go to Ryan, a self-proclaimed ‘tag-a-long” who agreed to answer a few questions.  Ryan has been tagging along since May 2012. He and his wife are pretty new at the Travel Nurse scene.

Here is what Ryan had to say about living the Travel Nursing Life as a tag-a-long:

Why did you choose to live a life of Travel Nursing?

My wife and I have always wanted to travel to see other places and people and experience how people live in different parts of the US and eventually the world. We both grew up in Texas, dated in high school, and got married after college. I got the chance to travel to Namibia, Africa, for a semester in college and absolutely loved it. I think my wife caught the travel bug from me after that.
 
The moment we officially decided to travel happened when my wife was coming up on her first 2 years of experience in nursing – what the agencies usually ask for. We had, of course, been discussing traveling for a while, but one night about a year ago, my wife said, “I’m ready to start traveling.” I said I was too, and we made it official with a spit shake. Haha, it was just a little bit impulsive.

Do you work from Home/Internet?

Right now, I’m planning on starting to work as an extra for TV and movies as we are on assignment in Los Angeles. For our first assignment in Las Vegas, I started working online for Leapforce doing web search optimization for Google and Bing. It turned out I would only get 5 or 10 hours of work a week, so I let that slide. I’m still trying to figure out what I can do to contribute something financially. As I said, I’m going to try being an extra here in LA, but for our next assignment, I’ll look for another online job, or perhaps something temporary in retail or Starbucks, etc.

What do you do when your Travel companion is working? Do you get bored? What do you do to keep active/entertained?

Besides looking for/thinking about work, I have just recently gone vegan a few months ago and really got into fitness. My wife and I go to an outdoor fitness camp called Camp Gladiator, which my wife started going to Texas. I’ve found that as a tagalong, having somewhere to meet people and make friends can really help, and Camp Gladiator has been one of those outlets for me. We have also found a church to attend, and they have been very open and accepting of us. For this assignment, we’re here for 8 months, so we have a chance to build these new relationships a little more than if we were here for only 3 months. However, for future assignments, I also plan to keep tapping into opportunities to make new friends.

Do you utilize local clubs or groups like meetup.com? What is the biggest challenge for you?

My biggest challenge so far has been keeping myself occupied and stifling boredom while my wife is at work. This was especially the case while we were in Vegas (our first assignment). Luckily lots of our friends and family came to visit us – imagine that – but for the most part, it was just our dog and me. I’m really into the video game franchise Call of Duty, so that definitely keeps me entertained. Fortunately, though, I get burnt out on it after a few hours, so it can only last so long. I’ve really enjoyed the opportunity to meet people in LA, so as I mentioned, I plan to keep on finding places to make new friends at other assignments.

What is the best benefit for you?

My biggest benefit is definitely the opportunity to see places I wouldn’t have otherwise been able to. We got to see Carlsbad Caverns, Roswell, NM, the grand canyon, Vegas, and now LA all in 6 months. I couldn’t think of a better way to get to see all of that.

What advice would you give to someone considering the life of a Tag-a-long?
For anyone considering tagging along with a travel nurse, I would say this: Try to figure out what you will do on the downtime beforehand if it is a job, volunteering, a workout group, or a local meetup group. This will greatly help to keep you stimulated and fulfilled. Take on whatever travel and household responsibilities you can. I’ve done my best to take on the role of house husband, and it seems to be working fairly well. I also plan out getting from location to location and what we’ll do while we’re on assignment. Most obviously, treat travel as an adventure. You might give up some of the structure and conveniences you left behind at home, but the payoff is worth it.